"Likes Attract Likes"

Good day gentlemen, i hope you did not miss me too much :) So as i have promised you before where i will go into each of these rules on "how to catch and keep a quality woman"and elaborate for you.

#1 on our list is "likes attract likes". We all know we are who we attract or they often say you can tell what a person is really like by the friends and people they spend their time with. And that includes when a quality woman sees you out in public. Not only will she observe your posture, your appearance, and your mannerisms, but also who you are with at that time and what you are doing. I am sure that men think the same way on this matter.

Let me ask you this...What kind of woman would you like to meet?
Go down the list and check next to the ones that are important to you......
1___sexy
2___intelligent
3___honest
4___good-looking
5___extrovert
6___sensitive
7___independent
8___feminine
9___loving and affectionate
10___takes good care of herself inside and out
11___dresses well
12___great lover
13___good cook
14___cultured
15___creative
16___good dancer
17___successful
18___career minded
19___animal and nature lover
20___into sports
21___loves to travel
22___spontaneous
23___family oriented
24___does not use unpolished language
25___charming and funny
26___someone who would be a great mother to your children
27___your best friend
28___someone who loves life
29___positive
30___poised with manners

Ok..so have you checked the list yet?
Now...look over the list and ask yourself. What have you been doing and where have you been spending your time? For example, would the kind of woman you 'd like to meet go to bars or the gym on a regular basis? Or does she go to charity events, art openings, yoga, or dance classes? Or what should you be doing differently to attract the kind of woman you want in your life? Do you possess the same qualities that you desire of her?

Most american men today have 5 things in common...food, sex, football, the gym, and politics....honestly, this is the absolute truth! It's ok to be into all of those, but being addicted to it where you can not go a day or two or even live without it is a bit sad. Did i forget to mention the remote control,too?
There are so much more to life like the arts, music, philanthropy, picking up martial arts, yoga, philosophy, reading books, spirituality, traveling, soccer, hockey, baseball, basketball, tennis, golf, dancing, spending time with your family.etc.

If you have been doing things and living your life a certain way and you are happy, i congratulate you. If you are over 37 and still bar hopping and drinking with your buddies hoping one night you will meet the woman of your dreams, then i suggest you get down from the clouds and start taking some action. :)

Most attractive single women have their act together. They have many hobbies and interests...They don't go to bars unless they are checking out a new posh place, catching up with friends they have not seen, networking, or if it's charity related. These women spend their free time learning, growing, and filled with interesting adventures leading towards their long term goals. They take care of their sexy bodies, so doing late nights out drinking and socializing with non-intelligent random men is not always their cup of tea.

I have been very fortunate to be courted by many handsome, intelligent, and successful men in the past. But why has it not lasted? That is something i am still trying to figure out for myself :), but one thing i do know for sure is their addiction to work, the gym, and football made it very easy for me to loose interest or shall i say disappear? :) I like a man who is able to balance and live his life to the fullest, someone who can prioritize and have no addictions (smoking, sex, drinking, drugs, food, sports,ect.shall i list more? ) but for me, most importantly, someone who does not grow old inside and someone who i can not outgrow in the game of life. He, like myself is passionate about life and someone who can be spontaneous when need to. Until i meet my man, let's talk about you....:)

One thing you can do to meet more beautiful quality women is try taking dance classes (tango, cha cha, swing, salsa, any ballroom..etc) You will find some of the sexiest and the most beautiful women there...I can't say the same for men, but definitely plenty of attractive women. So if you are a good-looking guy and you are learning how to dance...i can guarantee you that you will be the center of every woman's attention on the dance floor even with two left feet.

A woman or a man who dances will make a great lover in bed. Dancing has many health benefits in addition to enhancing your sensuality. Google it and you will find a ton of articles on the benefits of dancing.. It also heightens your romance radar. The other key thing you want to do is stand out from the crowd, especially from the men you are with. Brand yourself so you stand out from the rest of the guys. If a beautiful woman sees 10 hot men of the same level and quality, she will not be able to make a decision. But if you market yourself in such a way where you stand out from the others, she definitely will be focusing straight at you. Do you know what is sexy? A masculine-confident man that does yoga or martial arts to stay in shape instead of the gym...:)

To wrap up on this rule...whatever it is you want in a woman, you should be able to offer the same or something of equal...if she is exciting, you must be as well to keep up with her in the adventures of life :) Any questions or comments? feel free to ask me.

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