Rule # 8... Honesty Is The Best Policy

Ok gentlemen, this is a very important tip. Just be honest when it comes to dating a quality woman. She might not want to hear what you have to say when it's negative, but she will appreciate and respect you for your honesty. Quality women are very intuitive. So if you are not honest, they will soon find out. Steven Gaffney said in his book "Just Be Honest" that when you are honest with people, you train and condition them to be honest back to you. Save yourselves some explanations by being truthful and upfront in the beginning. Quality women are straight-forward about what they want. They don't like to waste time. Men who are honest and upfront with them will earn bonus points and will have a special place in their hearts.

I was seeing this guy for a while, and he was MR. HONESTY. We went out one night for dinner and he told me that he hated the babydoll dress i was wearing. OMG! no guy ever insulted me like that my whole life! Not even my brothers. Well, it took me 15 minutes to get over being upset, i ended up changing to a more form fitting dress and he loved it. The empire waist was in style at the time and i like to be in the know with fashion, but i realized that to men, it makes you look pregnant :) I have not worn a babydoll dress since. Although it was not what i wanted to hear, but i now appreciate him for being honest with me. I am a heterosexual. I dress to impress myself and to attract men. So when a quality man tells me that, i know i better listen to him. :)